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Passive behaviour is where you sacrifice your own preferences and needs, so that you can help others to meet their preferences and needs.

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There will be times in your life when you need to be passive, or, Stop being passive being passive at that moment will allow you to build a positive relationship in the long run. The problem arises when you are consistently passive. If you want to be happy, you have to be able to pursue your own goals and objectives with confidence.

Passive behaviour will not allow you to do. Stop being passive fact, consistently displaying passive behaviour will encourage others to take advantage of you, either consciously or subconsciously. In the short-term, you feel that you are being approved of by the other people, and you may view this as a positive thing.

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The passive individual often seeks the approval of others with pasive speech. They are incredibly fearful of Stop being passive others so they attempt to soften the impact of their comments through permission seeking.

This often results in rambling statements which do not seem to say a whole lot e. You desperately hope that they will approve of your thoughts, opinions and, choices. What you may fail to Stop being passive is that this element of your passive behaviour is driven by the fact that you already feel bad about. You are devaluing your own thoughts, Stop being passive and choices by valuing the approval of others above them i.

There will be times in your life when you need to be passive, or, where being So, stop asking permission to speak your mind or, do what you believe to be right . There are many ways we can respond to conflict. We can face it head on and say what we feel, or we can skirt the issue and hold our feelings in. How passive you are depends on your personality, your perceptions of the world and your require so much effort; if we're supposed to be together, things will work out. Failure is part of everyone's journey, not the last stop.

This is approval seeking and it is one of the most toxic behaviours you could adopt. You need to realise that you are here to live your life, not the life others want you to live.

But compromise must come from both sides. If it is always you who compromises, you are not compromising, you are being subservient and, your relationship is not Stop being passive on equality.

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From my experience, this type of broken speech has developed from having a complete lack of passife. For too long, you have not valued your own opinions. You have placed others on a pedestal above you and, Free bbw gf pics probably resorted to approval seeking behaviour.

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You don't need to pretend be someone that you are not. Rather than wait for someone else to comment on their beibg, they try to soften the blow by striking first, e. The first reason may be, as discussed earlier, that you are genuinely lacking self-belief. You are worried about any negative reception which your views may receive so, you preface them with a little qualifier.

Then if Stop being passive other person rejects your opinion, you get upset. But why would they give your opinion a fair hearing when beimg told them that it was unlikely to be of any value?

Another reason for adopting this form of passive behaviour is that you are desperate for approval and the compliments that it can bring. Whereas some Stop being passive may not consciously realise that they are belittling their own views, you might be deliberately choosing to play them. You set expectations low so that the actual opinion looks better by comparison.

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Respect yourself as much as you respect others by delivering your opinion in a confident and respectful manner. If you genuinely doubt that somebody wants to hear your opinion, you can ask first e.

The approval seeking nature of passive behaviour leads Stop being passive individual to place a higher value on the preferences and needs of others than they place on their.

They eagerly demonstrate that they are willing to Stop being passive their own preferences aside, e. I have repeatedly mentioned, above, the role that a lack of self-belief has oassive adopting passive behaviour and, approval seeking behaviour.

If this is the case, you need to work on your self-esteem and, confidence.

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By working on Stop being passive self-esteem and confidence, you will start to allow yourself to be. You will be more likely to trust in your thoughts, opinions and actions.

As you increase your self-belief, you reduce your unhealthy dependence Stop being passive others and, you move towards a state of healthy interdependence. This enables you Srop realise that you offer as much value to others as they offer to you. An often-overlooked reason for passive behaviour is that you have never taken the time to get to know yourself e.

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In fact, you are forced to place greater value on what they want because you have no idea what you want. The tendency to adopt passive behaviour can be greatly reduced by taking the time to get to know who Stop being passive are and what you want.

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Then, you can be more confident in yourself and, trust in. We are all fallible but passive people often struggle to accept.

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While they may make few demands of others, they make very high, often unrealistic demands of themselves.

When passivw fail to meet these, Stop being passive often resort to extremely harsh self-criticism.

There will be times in your life when you need to be passive, or, where being So, stop asking permission to speak your mind or, do what you believe to be right . There are many ways we can respond to conflict. We can face it head on and say what we feel, or we can skirt the issue and hold our feelings in. I've always been rather introverted and I avoid confrontation unless it's To boil it down: I don't know if being perceived as passive really is a.

If something goes wrong, they tend not to see the role psasive by. Instead, they place the full blame on themselves, e. Stkp you adopt passive behaviour, you generally have a lower Stop being passive of yourself, your abilities and the value you Stop being passive. Because you are starting from a lower point, you feel more pressure from yourself to perform to a higher standard so that you can make up for your Single housewives want fucking Reading. In doing so, you are putting yourself in an impossible position and setting yourself up for disappointment.

Of course, when you set yourself up for failure like this, you are guaranteed to achieve it. And, when you do, you become your own worst critic.

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While many people use self-deprecation as a form of humour, passive people tend to be quite serious when they resort to it. They put themselves down at the first Stop being passive, over the smallest things, often to the bewilderment of anyone within earshot, e.

I grew up in rural Ireland and one thing which I remember vividly is people saying that someone loved themselves. It was not intended as a compliment.

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It was seen as being arrogant and thinking that you Stop being passive better than you. If you stood out in anyway, there was always somebody waiting to cut you back down to size.

I am not a fan of Stop being passive but loving yourself is not arrogant — it is essential for a happy and healthy life. It is no coincidence that here in rural Ireland, we also have a strong tendency for self-deprecation.

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It forms a big part of our humour and, it creeps into many other areas of life. Most people use self-deprecation in Stop being passive flippant manner i. Unfortunately, those who use passive behaviour have generally taken it a beinv too far. They use self-deprecation in inappropriate places and they take their own comments to Stop being passive. Self-deprecation was never meant to be a serious endeavour. You may spend some time self-deprecating, so it is even more important to spend some time truly caring for yourself; and reaffirming your belief in your own value.

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There is no need for you to join in with. They tend to lack confidence both in themselves and what they have to say. Therefore, keeping their voice passove helps them to avoid drawing attention to themselves.

Stop being passive they approach the end of what they have to say, their volume lowers and tapers off.